It’s a Long Journey: We’ve called it a long journey not because we want you to be apprehensive about dating the best girls. We just don’t want you to take a leap forward for which you may not be ready yet. You must have seen the example of out-of-shape people starting to exercise vigorously and launching into crash diets because they want to lose weight overnight. Such efforts can only be sustained for a short period of time, after which the old habits, such as overeating and lack of physical activity, gain back control.

Don’t be Harsh with Yourself: Now you know why we want you to start with small steps. We want you to focus on long-term goals, rather than approaching the maximum number of girls in the minimum possible time and achieving nothing in the end. The transition process involves mental as well as emotional discoveries, which you need to assimilate gradually so you become a natural magnet, not a cosmetic one. After you are comfortable and confident about taking those small steps, walk for some time. Only then will you be ready to run.

Dating and Relationships are Art and Science Rolled into One Just like art and science, you need to realize that you’ll never attain perfection. You’ll have to learn, then improve, and then improve again until you realize that improvement is a continuous process that never stops. The other thing that never stops is the rewards that follow from feeling confident about your improvement.

Know What You Want Success in dating and relationships is no different than success in other fields. If you are not sure what you want, how are you going to achieve it? You may be interested in having one-night stands, friends or a steady girlfriend, or maybe you’d like to marry the girl. You need to believe in yourself (cliché, but true) so that you can be confident in front of the girl you desire.

How To Go About It? The first part of the dating process is to meet the girl, and for this you have to approach her and engage her in a conversation. Yes, this is the small step that we talked about in the beginning of this article. Seems easy, right? That’s because we have broken the dating process into smaller steps.

It is this very step that will lead you to the ultimate goal. You now seem more confident, and that’s good.

Companionship Home