Life Just Looks Complicated—It’s Really Not: When you look at your life with a detached perspective and try to find out what could make you happier, it all seems pretty complicated. This question occurs frequently in almost every mind. You are not alone in this big, bad world.

Let’s Cut to the Chase: Sooner or later you will realize that the happiness in your life is directly proportional to the relationships (especially with women) you have. Why? Because life consists of varied human interactions that form the basis of everyday relationships, which in turn affect your happiness quotient. All the problems lingering in your mind, such as why doesn’t she agree or why was she rude or other similar questions, originate from your relationships. If you are enjoying happy relationships, all these imaginary problems will simply vanish without leaving a forwarding address.

Am I Attractive Enough? Some of us are constantly worried about how we look or whether we look attractive to somebody else. The sooner you become comfortable in your skin, the better, because you can’t change who you are. All you can change is your attitude. Remember, as far as external appearance is concerned, what’s in today may be out tomorrow. But nothing can take away your feeling of comfort with yourself deep within. Everyone likes that, including women.

Can It be Taught? Now comes the question: Can the art of having happy relationships be learned or taught? Don’t we learn something new every day? Yes, we do, though we may not always be aware of it. We learn things from relatives, friends and colleagues, among others.

If you think you need help approaching a woman and you take steps to get that much-needed help, you are just being smart. Even management thinkers will tell you that recognition of a problem is a big part of the solution. If you needed help to fix your computer or you car, you wouldn’t feel uncomfortable about the problem. So why should you be cautious about discussing relationship problems? Once you recognize a problem, you are displaying a willingness to change, which is an important milestone on your way to contented relationships with women. Now you are ready to be a part of that lucky male minority that gets to have most of the fun with the opposite sex.

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